Divorce Coaching for Men
Clarity, confidence, and steady guidance when you need it most.
As a Certified Divorce Coach®, I help you communicate more effectively, reduce conflict, and make informed decisions — so you can stay grounded and in control during one of life’s toughest transitions. My approach brings together emotional steadiness, relational insight, and strategic planning for a calmer, more deliberate process.
Services
Initial Consultation — Free
A 30-minute conversation to explore your situation and determine whether divorce coaching is the right fit.
Get answers to your initial questions
Learn what coaching can and cannot do
Clarify your next step, with no obligation
Divorce Clarity Session — $250
A 90-minute strategic consultation (Zoom or in-person)
Understand your situation and top concerns
Clarify your divorce and separation options
Explore pathways to repair or avoid divorce when possible
Identify the decisions that matter most right now
Map your next 30–60 days with concrete action steps
After the Divorce Clarity Session, many men choose to continue with ongoing coaching to stay grounded and make thoughtful decisions as the process unfolds. The weekly rhythm provides stability, structure, and real-time support during one of life’s most unpredictable transitions.
Ongoing Coaching — $500/month
Continued support to help you stay grounded, organized, and confident as the process unfolds.
Four hours of 1:1 coaching each month
Support between sessions (as needed)
Guidance for communication, decision-making, and co-parenting conversations
Continued clarity around legal, relational, and emotional next steps
What Makes Me Unique
Men-First Coaching
I specialize in working with men—that means I understand how men think, what’s at stake for them emotionally and relationally, and how to navigate this transformation with strength, clarity, and dignity.
Option to Repair
Whether you’re hoping to repair your marriage or prepare for a low-conflict separation, I guide you through communication strategies, conflict-reduction tools, and clarity-building so you make conscious choices — not reactionary ones.
Lead With Integrity
My focus isn’t just on surviving divorce — it’s on creating the conditions for a fair, low-conflict outcome. That means thinking ahead, coordinating with attorneys/therapists/financial professionals, and helping you lead with clarity, calm, and long-term perspective.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Therapists focus on your emotional healing. Lawyers handle the legal side. Divorce coaching fills the gap between the two. I help you stay clear-headed, organized, and strategic—especially when emotions threaten to hijack good decisions. Think of me as the one who helps you show up to those other professionals more prepared, more grounded, and less overwhelmed.
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Divorce coaching is often the support that prevents unnecessary expenses. When you’re more organized, less reactive, and clearer on your priorities, you avoid costly mistakes, drawn-out legal battles, and wasted energy. Many clients tell me that coaching paid for itself in the form of reduced attorney hours alone.
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Friends and family care about you, but they’re often emotionally involved—and not always equipped to offer the kind of practical, neutral guidance you need. Coaching gives you a calm, judgment-free space to sort through decisions and next steps without overburdening your personal circle or getting overwhelmed by conflicting advice.
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That’s okay. Many of my clients come to coaching in a state of deep uncertainty. You don’t have to be sure to start. Coaching can help you untangle what you’re feeling, clarify what you need, and move forward—whether that means staying, leaving, or simply creating healthier boundaries.
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Mediators focus on resolving disputes between two parties. As your coach, I focus entirely on you. I help you get clear on what matters most, prepare for conversations and negotiations, and stay emotionally steady throughout the process. If you do work with a mediator, coaching often makes that process smoother and more effective.
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No. Divorce coaching isn’t covered by insurance because it’s not a licensed mental health service. While I’m a certified professional, coaching is considered a separate category—focused on strategic support, not clinical treatment. That said, many clients find the clarity, emotional relief, and reduced legal stress well worth the investment.
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My primary work is with individuals who are navigating divorce or considering separation and need support in getting clear, grounded, and focused. That said, if you’re part of a couple in crisis and curious about coaching, let’s talk and explore what kind of support makes the most sense.
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Start by scheduling a Divorce Clarity Session — a free 30-minute working session designed to help you get clear on what’s happening, what’s keeping you stuck, and what next steps make the most sense. It’s a focused, pressure-free way to get support, ask questions, and see whether coaching is the right fit for you.