DIVORCE COACHING
When you know what you want, the rest of divorce gets simpler.
Divorce coaching gives you a consistent place to think clearly, prepare for difficult conversations, navigate conflict, and make decisions that reflect what actually matters to you.
All coaching relationships begin with a one-hour session.
A QUICK NOTE FROM JAMES
What does a divorce coach actually help with?
Most divorce problems don’t happen in a courtroom. They happen in conversations, decisions, relationships, and the moments when you’re trying to figure out what you actually want.
Watch this 2-minute video to hear more.
IT’S ABOUT MORE THAN THE LAW
Not every divorce problem is a legal problem.
Attorneys are important when you need legal advice, but many of the hardest parts of divorce are human.
What do I actually want?
How do I talk to my spouse about something difficult?
How do I keep conflict from taking over?
What do my kids need from me?
How do I handle anger, grief, or uncertainty?
When am I ready to date again?
Which professionals do I actually need?
How do I make decisions I won’t regret?
HOW DIVORCE COACHING HELPS YOU
Support for what actually matters
Clarity & Decisions
Get clear on what you want, what matters most, and the tradeoffs ahead. We’ll sort through priorities, fears, and the kind of divorce you want to create.
Communication &
Conflict
Prepare for important conversations, think through what you want to say, anticipate likely reactions, and stay grounded when emotions run high.
Children, Identity & Relationships
Navigate parenting, self-care, identity changes, loneliness, dating, and new relationships so you can move through this transition with greater intention.
Education &
Professional Guidance
Understand your options, prepare for meetings, and get more value from the attorneys, financial professionals, mediators, and other experts you choose to work with.
DIVORCE COACHING IN ACTION
When you’re clear,
the rest of the process gets easier.
Clarity About
What You Want
Better
Conversations
Better Professional
Choices
Better
Decisions
ONGOING DIVORCE COACHING
$900/month
A consistent thought partner as your situation evolves.
✓ Four 60-minute coaching sessions each month
✓ Email support between sessions
✓ Ad-hoc calls when something important comes up
✓ Workbooks, planning tools, and practical exercises
✓ Introductions to trusted divorce professionals
✓ Month-to-month engagement
✓ Cancel at any time
Most clients work with me for 3-4 months, though there is no required commitment.
All coaching relationships begin with a one-hour session.
WHY CONTINUITY MATTERS
Coaching gets more valuable as I get to know your situation.
My ability to help improves as I understand you, your spouse, your family dynamics, your priorities, and the concerns that tend to show up when things get difficult.
That context makes it easier for me to help you prepare for conversations, recognize recurring conflict, think through decisions, and stay connected to what matters most.
REAL CONVERSATIONS
What do people actually talk about in coaching?
“How should I respond to this text from my spouse?”
“I’m ready to divorce, but my spouse isn’t.”
“Is what I’m asking for reasonable?”
“I don’t understand the divorce process. How do I do this?”
“How do we tell our kids we’re getting divorced?”
“How do I get my spouse on board with mediation?”
“My spouse hired an attorney. What should I do?”
“How should I respond to this text from my spouse?”
ABOUT JAMES
Practical guidance for one of life’s hardest transitions.
✓ Certified Divorce Coach
✓ Kids-First Certified Mediator
✓ Background in leadership, relationships, and human behavior
✓ Nationwide coaching
✓ Based in Charlotte, NC
My approach is practical, analytical, and people-centered. I help clients slow things down enough to think clearly, while still helping them keep moving forward.
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING
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“James kept me focused on what was important, recognizing the emotions but focusing on logical next steps."
—T.H.
Raleigh, NC
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“James’ guidance helped me to cut through uncertainty and focus on my core values and what truly matters to me.”
—K.C.
Charlotte, NC
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“Working with James has been transformative during one of the most challenging chapters of my life."
—A.S.
Fort Mill, SC
TAKE THE NEXT STEP
You don’t have to navigate every part of this alone.
Start by getting clear on where you are, what you want, and to do next.
If ongoing coaching makes sense afterward, we can decide that together.